Bear With Each Other And Forgive One Another

Alan Terry • 15 October 2026

Put On Love!

COLOSSIANS 3:12-14
“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.
”‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭12‬-‭14‬ ‭NKJV‬
‬https://bible.com/bible/114/col.3.12-14.NKJ

These verses are a well-known passage from the Apostle Paul’s letter to the Colossian church. It uses the metaphor of getting dressed to describe how Christians should live out their new identity in everyday relationships.
He does not start with a list of rules; he starts with identity.
Believers are picked by God ("chosen"), set apart for His purposes ("holy"), and deeply cherished ("beloved"). Our identity is therefore rooted in the love of Christ.
Christian behavior is not an attempt to earn God’s love, but rather, it is the natural outfit of someone who already possesses it.
Paul tells the church to strip off their old, destructive habits (detailed earlier in Colossians 3), and pull on five core relational virtues.
Deep empathy that moves you to care for others in pain.
A friendly, helpful, and gracious disposition toward others.
Put on Humility (Lowliness/Meekness), thinking of yourself less, recognizing your own flaws, and trading arrogance for a quiet strength under control.
Put on Patience (Long-suffering), the ability to endure irritations, slow progress, or difficult people without exploding or retaliating.
Bearing with one another, in other words, make room for each other’s quirks, flaws, and non-sinful annoyances instead of demanding perfection.
And put on forgiveness-let go of all offence, pardoning real grievances, anchored in a specific standard. “as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive (Mathew 6:14).

Above all else, put on the outer coat, which is love. Love is portrayed as the final garment—the overcoat or belt that holds all the other virtues together (Mathew 22:36-40).
Without love, patience wears thin and humility feels fake. Love transforms a collection of individual good behaviors into a unified, functioning community.
If only the people of this world could put on love, this world would quickly become a better place to live.
All glory be to God forever and ever! Amen.
Please share to our brothers and sisters all around the world.

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